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Karch Kiraly, the Babe Ruth of volleyball, when asked how he prepared to win Olympic Gold replied," I never did. I only prepared to win the next play." Baseball players might take that to heart. You don't prepare to make the HS varsity, get a college 'ship, or play pro ball you just prepare to make the next play. Yet how often do you see Baseball Academies and hot shot select/travel teams advertise that they are preparing players for High School and imply that you will also get a college scholarship and big signing bonus if you just give them your money and play for them. Parents, to even voice those goals to your baseball player are wrong and counterproductive.
All he should be doing is preparing so that he can have the most success/FUN possible the next play! That is all he can control. The rest takes care of itself if he does well enough. My son enjoyed playing college baseball so much more than pro baseball. In college, the sole focus was to win. In pro baseball, the sole focus for most is to put up numbers that get you to the next level or get you more money in the next contract or arbitration. Many pro baseball players don’t know how to play to win. They have only played to put up numbers and the wins were a by product but when it gets down to the time when all that matters is winning, they don’t have it in them because it isn’t something you can just turn on. Live with it Mets fans. Great players, but just as you don’t “walk off the island”, just because you can put up flashy numbers doesn’t mean you know how to win. Playing to win is a learned skill just like how to turn a double play or hit the curve. Sadly, many
youth baseball programs treat the idea of playing to win as a negative. To them it is all about batting averages, HRs, babying arms with pitch counts and playing lots of games so that the people who put on these programs can maximize revenues. When you play a tournament every weekend, they become just another opportunity to hit a HR. What’s the difference if we win or lose. We will play another tourney next week and maybe I’ll get a HR and be entered into the “Over The Fence Gang” section of the team website. The Coach SEE ARCHIVES
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